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Wynnie Hemming
Winifred or Wynnie Hemming was a daughter of Alice Hemming nee Schreiner and her husband Robert, and so one of Olive Schreiner’s nieces. After her mother’s death in 1884, Wynnie together with her siblings was cared for primarily by Ettie Schreiner, later Stakesby Lewis, who she came regard as a surrogate mother figure. Wynnie helped to care for Ettie during her final illness, and after her death in 1912 took up a teaching position in an orphanage called Marsh’s Memorial Homes in Cape Town, as well as being the key figure in maintaining the family networks, including managing shared property and finances. This included taking responsibility for the upkeep of her brother Guy, who had a number of breakdowns at a young age from what probably what would now be termed schizophrenia, and then lived permanently in a mental institution.
There are a fairly large number of extant letters from Olive Schreiner to Wynnie Hemming, spanning the period from 1876 when Wynnie was a child up until 1920. Wynnie herself remains a rather hazy figure as an individual, although she clearly played a prominent role in the extended Schreiner/Hemming family, particularly so for its younger generation. During Ettie’s last illness, was an emissary for Olive Schreiner in passing on news of Ettie’s condition and also receiving extensive advice and suggestions from Schreiner about how best to care for Ettie and make her comfortable. After Ettie’s death, there is a clear sense in Schreiner’s letters that Wynnie had begun to replace Ettie’s role in the family as the person who ‘took care of others’ and who lived a life of ‘duty’ and ‘sacrifice’. She wrote to Wynnie referring to “your brave sad life” and praised her work in caring for others and doing her ‘duty’. Certainly their mutual love for Ettie was a strong bond between Schreiner and Wynnie, with a letter from Schreiner in 1917 commenting that now “You and I are the only humanbeings who always have our wonderful darling in our hearts.”. There is also the sense that Schreiner had a greater feeling for Wynnie than for her other nieces and nephews.
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- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/41:My dear Wynnie, Thank you so much for your letter which I got this morning. I am so glad to hear the little mother goes on we...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/83:Feb 3rd 1905, Darling Wynnie, Thank you so much about for your note about the dear ones in Cape Town. The great fault in your...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/88:de Aar, I leave tomorrow for Matjesfontein, My darling Wynnie, I have just heard from Aunt Ettie that my dear old brother has...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/89:Hotel Milner, Matjesfontein, Sunday night, 1906, Dear Wynnie, Thank you for the picture, dear, it is very very beautiful &...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/118:Alexandra Hotel, Muizenberg, Wednesday 191, Dear Wynnie, Thank you so much for your letter. I am posting a letter to Aunt Het...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/139:My dear old Wynnie, Thank you for your letter. I can’t come out on Monday. I am not finding this place suit me. I have ...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/145:Dear Wynnie, I have wired to Dr ?Maran’s but not yet been able to get him. , I am sending a pigeon, on the chance that ...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/155:De Aar, Aug 24th 1912, Dear Wynnie,, I’ve just got a wire to say my dear little Dora Cawood passed away peacefully yest...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/157:Tuesday, Wynne darling,, I send you a letter I got from Clifford Cawood to-day. I fear my dear little Dora is going too. Dear...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/158:My darling Wynnie, I am so glad to hear you have that post as Marshe’s Homes. It will be much better for you than an or...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/159:Dear Wynnie, Letter-writing seems impossible to me now-a-days or I should have written to you long ago., How do you like your...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/160:Dear,, I wrote you a letter some time ago. As I can’t find it I suppose someone posted it while I was ill. I hope you g...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/161:De Aar, May 3rd 1913, Dear Winnie, I was so glad to get your letter today. I’m glad all goes well with our little Effie...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/162:Wynnie dear , I am burning all my old papers as I have no one to do it after I am dead I thought you might like to keep this ...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/163:Hotel Augusta Victoria, Bad Nauheim, My dear Wynnie, I was so glad to get your letter. I think so often of you dear, but find...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/164:Kensington Palace Mansions, De Vere Gardens, W., Telephone: 3675 Kensington. Telegrams: Apartment, London. , Xmas Day, Wynne,...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/165:Dear, can you tell me if Arthur Brown’s mother is living anywhere near London. I should so much like to see her if she ...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/166:c/o Dr. Parker, Llandrindod Wells, Wales, June 18th 1916, Darling Wynnie, I’ve been so ill for a long time I’ve n...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/167:London, July 3rd 1917, My darling Wynnie, Your sweet letter has just reached me. You & I are the only humanbeings who alw...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/168:London, June 13th 1918, My darling Wynne, Thank you for your letter. How I wish I could see you I don’t often see Uncle...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/169:Dec 21st 1918, (I can’t be a merry Xmas to any of us), Wynnie, This is an awful blow that has fallen on you, my dear, d...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/170:Darling Wynnie, Will you please send the enclosed letters to Emma Earp. I don’t know her address It is too dreadful tha...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/171:Maer Lake, Bude, North Cornwall, Nov 11th 1919, I got here yesterday dear, from London. Hope the clearer fresher air will pul...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/173:Dear,, I think I told you I am sailing on the 13th of August with Oliver & Edna for the Cape., It will be good to see you...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/174:9 Porchester Place,, Edgware Rd, March 10th 1920, My darling Wynnie, I can’t thank you enough for your beautiful letter...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/175:Thank you for your letter dearest, & thank my dear little Wynne for hers. How blank it is for me I can’t tell you d...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/176:I wonder if you have seen Uncle Cron, dear. He writes me now he is not leaving till the middle of June. I’ve not seen O...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/177:Wednesday, London, Darling Wynnie, I send you a letter from May Parker - the doctors wife at Llandrindod wrote me when Uncle ...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/178:Darling Wynne, I am still at Aunt Fan’s as I have not yet been able to find a room. As soon as I am settled you must co...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/179:Dear, the buttermilk was such a treat the nicest thing I’ve tasted for months. Next Saturday I am going to Lady Innes’...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/180:Dear Wynnie , I hope you are keeping well I am so sorry to hear from Fan that Effies little ones have the flu. I wish I could...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/181:Darling little Wynnie!, I think you will be glad to get a letter from me, though it is only a little one. I shall be glad whe...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/188:Dear Wynnie, I am very ill. I think I shall soon die. I am still able to walk about, I never can lie down. When I am really h...
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- National English Literary Museum, Grahamstown: The National English Literary Museum is the leading location for collections pertaining to the imaginative and creative writi... Show/Hide Collection Letters
- Olive Schreiner: Mimmie Murray 2001.24/13:De Aar , My dear Friend, Thank you for your dear letter. I would gladly accept the offer of going to your house if you were s...
- Olive Schreiner: Mimmie Murray 2001.24/62:My dear Friend, Your letter & Mr Murrays went to my heart. You are the kind of souls that have to be taken care of by you...
- Olive Schreiner: Will Schreiner 97.12.3.6.24:Ganna Hoek, Oct 20th 1875, My dear old Will!, The Fouches are going into Cradock to have their baby baptised & I must tak...
- SCCS Edited Extracts: Four groups of edited extracts from Olive Schreiner's letters can be accessed from here, made by her estranged husband Cronwr... Show/Hide Collection Letters
- Olive Schreiner: Extracts of Letters to Cronwright-Schreiner MSC 26/2.16/198:…I have no asthma, not the slightest touch since I left Hanover & at Pretoria my heart was splendid, better even th...
- Olive Schreiner: Extracts of Letters to Cronwright-Schreiner MSC 26/2.16/528:…I am so glad you are going to Winnie’s (Cambridge Terrace). You will find that much the best part of London in W...
- National Library of South Africa, Cape Town: Special Collections at the NLSA provide one of the leading locations for archival papers across many periods, organisations a... Show/Hide Collection Letters
- Olive Schreiner: Katie Findlay MSC 26/2.14.29:Matjesfontein, My dear Sister , I fear I am a very bad correspondent but I have so much writing to do that I hate to write a ...
- University of Cape Town, Historical Manuscripts: Manuscripts & Archives at the University of Cape Town is a leading location for accessing archival papers across many per... Show/Hide Collection Letters
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/6:Lily Kloof, July 29 / 80, My dear darling old Sister!, This evening Robert’s letter reached me. I cannot believe that i...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/7:81 Guildford St, Russell Sq. , London. WC, April 9th 1882, My dear Alice,, I was glad once more to hear from you & should...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/8:Rose Cottage, Bexhill-on-Sea, Sussex, Oct Nov 3 / 83, My dear Alice, Many thanks for your letter. I am very sorry to hear you...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/19:Sunday afternoon, My old Ettie,, I enclose mother’s last telegram to me: that settles the question. Please return it. T...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/20:Grahamstown, Wednesday, My Ettie., How strangely unlike anything we had planned all is turning out. Here I am at Lillies. We ...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/21:Mount Vernon, Cape Town , Dec 27th 1889., Dear Ettie,, I send you mother’s letter to me as there are messages to you. I...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/22:Matjesfontein, May 6 / 90, My darling old Sister, Do drop me a line to say you are in Worcester & how you are. My beautif...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/31:Amalfi, March 18 / 97, My darling old sis, I’ve had asthma ever since I got to England, & its worse since we came o...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/36:The Homestead, July 27 / 98, Darling Effie, I’m so glad mother is so satisfied. I knew she would be., I was talking to ...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/38:Dounan’s House, Hospital Hill, Nov – 16 / 98, Darling old Ettie, I hope very much some day you will come up here....
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/41:My dear Wynnie, Thank you so much for your letter which I got this morning. I am so glad to hear the little mother goes on we...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/65:Thursday night, My darling Ettie,, Thank you for your letter. I haven’t written before because my heart seems to get so...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/67:Hanover, Oct 8 / 03, My old Ettie,, Yesterday some one dumped down at my door a most mysterious little Golden-syrup tin full ...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/79:Hanover, June 22nd 1904, Darling Sister , Let me know exactly what your plans are. I will try & go with you any time if t...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/83:Feb 3rd 1905, Darling Wynnie, Thank you so much about for your note about the dear ones in Cape Town. The great fault in your...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/84:Hanover, CC, Sep 12 / 05, Darling Effie, Would you do me a great favour. I have written to ask Mrs Austin if she could kindly...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/87:Hadden Hall, Aug 6 / 06, My darling Effie, I am so glad to hear things go fairly well with you. Yes, dear, I shall love to co...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/88:de Aar, I leave tomorrow for Matjesfontein, My darling Wynnie, I have just heard from Aunt Ettie that my dear old brother has...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/89:Hotel Milner, Matjesfontein, Sunday night, 1906, Dear Wynnie, Thank you for the picture, dear, it is very very beautiful &...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/90:Hotel Milner, Matjesfontein, Nov 28th 1906, Darling Effie, It was a surprise to get your letter. If you are going back becaus...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/93:Hanover, Jan 29th 1907, My own old Ettie, How my heart is with you in this awful, the most awful of all sorrows on earth whic...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/108:De Aar, July 21st 1909, My darling Ettie, I hope you are getting on well with your work. I told Dr ?Simmington when he & ...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 /115:From Olive , To Brown , Highlands, Gardens, Cape Town, Deepest sympathy with you Arthur and Winnie,
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/116:My darling Effie, Arthur’s card has come. I have no words to tell you, my darling, how my heart aches for you & Art...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/118:Alexandra Hotel, Muizenberg, Wednesday 191, Dear Wynnie, Thank you so much for your letter. I am posting a letter to Aunt Het...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/124:Milnerton, Wednesday ?evening, I got here my darling this afternoon. It is so nice to feel I am near you at least as far as s...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/125:Thursday night, Darling, I haven’t written because every day I’ve been hoping I would be able to walk up to the H...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/126:My old Ettie, I’m thinking of you all the time, beloved. Do try to get strong: you are in a state of the most extreme m...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/136:Friday night, My own Ettie, Who was always so good to me & helped me when there was no one else to help me. Do you rememb...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/139:My dear old Wynnie, Thank you for your letter. I can’t come out on Monday. I am not finding this place suit me. I have ...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/145:Dear Wynnie, I have wired to Dr ?Maran’s but not yet been able to get him. , I am sending a pigeon, on the chance that ...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/151:Monday, My darling, I am feeling so anxious about you. Oh my dear old Ettie, that you should have to suffer so fearfully. If ...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/155:De Aar, Aug 24th 1912, Dear Wynnie,, I’ve just got a wire to say my dear little Dora Cawood passed away peacefully yest...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/156:De Aar, Thursday, So anxious to know how you get on in your room my darling now there is a fire & with the linoleum on th...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/157:Tuesday, Wynne darling,, I send you a letter I got from Clifford Cawood to-day. I fear my dear little Dora is going too. Dear...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/158:My darling Wynnie, I am so glad to hear you have that post as Marshe’s Homes. It will be much better for you than an or...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/159:Dear Wynnie, Letter-writing seems impossible to me now-a-days or I should have written to you long ago., How do you like your...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/161:De Aar, May 3rd 1913, Dear Winnie, I was so glad to get your letter today. I’m glad all goes well with our little Effie...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/162:Wynnie dear , I am burning all my old papers as I have no one to do it after I am dead I thought you might like to keep this ...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/163:Hotel Augusta Victoria, Bad Nauheim, My dear Wynnie, I was so glad to get your letter. I think so often of you dear, but find...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/164:Kensington Palace Mansions, De Vere Gardens, W., Telephone: 3675 Kensington. Telegrams: Apartment, London. , Xmas Day, Wynne,...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/166:c/o Dr. Parker, Llandrindod Wells, Wales, June 18th 1916, Darling Wynnie, I’ve been so ill for a long time I’ve n...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/167:London, July 3rd 1917, My darling Wynnie, Your sweet letter has just reached me. You & I are the only humanbeings who alw...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/168:London, June 13th 1918, My darling Wynne, Thank you for your letter. How I wish I could see you I don’t often see Uncle...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/169:Dec 21st 1918, (I can’t be a merry Xmas to any of us), Wynnie, This is an awful blow that has fallen on you, my dear, d...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/170:Darling Wynnie, Will you please send the enclosed letters to Emma Earp. I don’t know her address It is too dreadful tha...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/174:9 Porchester Place,, Edgware Rd, March 10th 1920, My darling Wynnie, I can’t thank you enough for your beautiful letter...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/175:Thank you for your letter dearest, & thank my dear little Wynne for hers. How blank it is for me I can’t tell you d...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/177:Wednesday, London, Darling Wynnie, I send you a letter from May Parker - the doctors wife at Llandrindod wrote me when Uncle ...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/178:Darling Wynne, I am still at Aunt Fan’s as I have not yet been able to find a room. As soon as I am settled you must co...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/180:Dear Wynnie , I hope you are keeping well I am so sorry to hear from Fan that Effies little ones have the flu. I wish I could...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/181:Darling little Wynnie!, I think you will be glad to get a letter from me, though it is only a little one. I shall be glad whe...
- Schreiner-Hemming Family BC 1080 A1.7/188:Dear Wynnie, I am very ill. I think I shall soon die. I am still able to walk about, I never can lie down. When I am really h...
- Olive Schreiner BC16/Box3/Fold1/1902/9:Thursday, My darling Mothie, I was so glad to get your card today, only sorry there was no news of Elberty. I am very anxious...
- Olive Schreiner BC16/Box3/Fold3/1904/57:Hanover, Xmas Eve, Dear Friend, I am sitting here in my little study again. The time at Pretoria was splendid. No accounts of...
- Olive Schreiner BC16/Box3/Fold5/1906/23:Hotel Milner, Matjesfontein, Oct 10 1906, Dear Fan, I don’t know just when your birthday is, but I know it’s some...
- Olive Schreiner BC16/Box5/Fold1/1912/6:Alexandra Hotel, Muizenberg, Private, Dear Will, I’ve been feeling very hopeful about Ettie ever since we were there. I...
- Olive Schreiner BC16/Box5/Fold1/1912/20:Friday , Dear old Man, I think from Wynnie’s last letter the end must be very near Wire to me when you have any news. W...
- Olive Schreiner BC16/Box5/Fold1/1912/47:De Aar, Thursday , My dear Laddie, I’ve been wanting to write to you for days, but the old pump doing its work badly, &...
- Olive Schreiner BC16/Box5/Fold2/1913/10:Grand Hotel, Muizenberg , Darling Betty, Can I bring Wynnie Hemming to see you on Thurs-day afternoon? Telephone to me if you...
- Olive Schreiner BC16/Box5/Fold2/1913/27:Dear Friend, Thank you for your letter. Dear Mrs Murray has offered me a little cottage on her farm close to Graaff Reinet &...
- Olive Schreiner BC16/Box5/Fold4/Jan-June1915/11:Telephone: 3675 Kensington., Telegrams: Apartment, London., Kensington Palace Mansions & Hotel,, De Vere Gardens, W., Dea...
- Olive Schreiner BC16/Box7/Fold4/Mar-Dec1920/47:My dear, dear, dear Mary, , I’ve not been able to write to any one lately or I would have written to you. When is the ...